Browndelight by Queen Liz

I used to hear stories of rape cases and say (God forbid, it cannot be my portion) I am happy I can talk about this today, I had been bitter and scared at the same time for a period of time. Let me call the attacker Mr. X, I had taken some clothes to my neighbour to buy, there I saw Mr X who happens to be my neighbours' cousin (according to them). He was good looking and looked nice (looks can be deceiving) , we exchanged contacts and we started talking , chatting etc. He invited me for a birthday on Friday night,  I accepted to attend. He offered me a drink and to my amazement, it was already opened, I held unto the drink and when he stepped out, I emptied half of the contents in the flower pot next to me. When he returned we kept on talking and dancing I didn't touch my drink again. Fast forward to about 3 am ( ye, judge me, I was out till that time), Mr. X complained that he was too drunk to drive to my house then his. He suggested we slept at his place and he would drop m...

Are you feeling sad and down? Make a list of all your qualities and the things you are grateful for, especially for being alive.  Feel good about them , I hope this helps you realise you are truly amazing.  #kisses

This is something a wrote a while back and decided to share again as it made a lot of sense to me and has been a guide. For the real you to emerge, you need to let go of things, habits and persons who weigh you down. You must let go of the necessary to access the desired breakthrough and destination. I have decided to let go of people who hurt me in the past and any relationship / friendship that doesn't lead me to being a better person. Xoxo